Wednesday, September 2, 2009

Holding Onto Negative Thoughts Reduces Your Chance Of A Cancer Cure

By Rita Goldman

Negative Thoughts and Cancer Cure

The problem with most people in life is the fact that they protect negative thoughts, in fact most of us at some time or another are believing to the idea that we are not worthy of...whatever it is we dream about.

However what we fail to realize is that with the correct mindset, we can actually achieve anything. It takes just thirty days to make a habit, not necessarily a good habit, just a habit. So for instance if you stop walking daily then after thirty days you no longer exercise period. It has become easier not to do something.

Unfortunately that is a luxury not acceptable to cancer survivors, what makes the difference between people who survive cancer and people who do not is their mindset. To do that, you have to be in control and to be in control you have to be clear in deciding what it is you want.

Precisely what that is, is of course up to you, it cannot be dictated by your friends, your family or your partner. When you have been diagnosed with cancer it is imperative that you take action, despite being plagued with self doubts, anxieties and fears you need to strengthen yourself. Unfortunately your cancer has not grown overnight and it will not go into remission overnight, ahead of you have some very, very tough choices to make. This is one time in your life when you have to take control.

Once you have made your choices you need the support of everyone. Surround yourself with positive people. For most of our lives we can drift and we can put things off, we all have our dreams, but there is a big difference in having dreams and making those dreams a concrete reality.

What often stands in the way of ordinary everyday human beings is the inability to say NO a very simple short word, one syllable really. Babies learn to say it very early on in life, but somehow most adults cant utter it. Before saying no, decide if you want to say yes to, what is truly important to you, and by that it had better be something that you really want because your life may well depend on it.

Many of us have full lives with different commitments, a network of friends, but there is not necessarily room for all of these things when you have just been diagnosed with cancer. Make room in your life for what is important; if you have decided to do whatever it takes to survive then make sure that you can do so. Believe in yourself and your worth and make the time to do what it takes, even if that means major rescheduling. Rest, diet health is all important but statistically those that you use others intelligently are more likely to survive cancer.

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